Sunday, February 16, 2014

How often do you have sex?

My husband and I have been together twenty-two years; we met right after I graduated high school. He had just graduated Ju-Co. We dated seven years before we married. We've always had the hots for each other, and had sex every day sometimes multiple times a day when we dated. Once we married that didn't change; actually, sex got more intense. Needless to say, it's better than ever.

We were having a discussion a while ago about how all of our coupled friends are now either divorced and living single or have remarried. We're the only couple still together, and still in love with one another. We're wondering has our intense sexual relationship the one thing that has kept us head over heels for each other? Over the years all of our friends began calling us "The Humps". Everyone knows don't call either of them after 9:00 on any night; they're busy fucking. Yep, that's really what we call it. We're so passed making love and all that mushy stuff. We just fuck, plain and simple.

We have sex every chance we get, and we enjoy pleasing each other. He's constantly touching me...from slapping me on the ass in passing to touching me in some way. I absolutely love the fact that he can't keep his hands off of me. We still have sex every day and when we can, sometimes multiple times daily.

Is sex the one thing that our coupled friends missed out on in their relationships, or are we just a different couple that can't get enough of each other? How often do you have sex?

We were encouraged to start this blog by my husband's cousin. Here's the link to the original blog that started it all.

http://www.abelleinbrooklyn.com/sex-360-days-year-times-wife/


44 comments:

  1. I think our insatiable appetite for sex has kept us close to each other, and in turn we constantly lust for each other.

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  2. Interesting... will definitely be following this blog!

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    1. Thank you kindly for following us: I hope we live up to your standards...#appreciatetheluv :)

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  3. If it works for you & yours---round of applause. And clearlt, it's working. When considering compatability, sexual appetite should be near the top of the list of considerations.

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    1. You're most certainly right; sexual compatibility is a must....5 things married folks have to agree on if you want it to last...#stayedtuned

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  4. As a newlywed. I'm officially jealous. Lol

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    1. Don't be jealous girl...lol...#startalilsuminsumin

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  5. I have so many questions… How long do the sex last? How do you keep up as a woman? Are monthlys not an issue ?What about days you guys are arguing? Do you argue? Do you have straight up vanilla sex or … ? What time do you go to bed? Have you guys been doing this all through the relationship? Or is this something in the last couple of years. Did it just happen or did you discuss we having sex every day?

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    1. Okay Anonymous; you have a lot of question, but I don't mind at all...next post is for you...#stayedtuned

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  6. Well this is just brilliant. But lordy, where do you find the energy? Do you both have orgasms every time?

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    1. We find the energy because we simply can't get enough of each other...and ususally yes we both orgasm every damn time....#itjustisdatgood

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  7. Interesting, but how did this work out when you were on your period?

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    1. When it's that time of the month I give him a mind blowing, eyes roll in the back of his head, toe curling blow job...#immadeepthroat

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  8. I LOVE this!! And I'm so glad I found it. I am always curious about women who say that they stopped screwing after getting married or hitting 40. I'm like, but you have a man there EVERY night, why not? Good for y'all!

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    1. Thanks for the compliment....#itsgetsbettawitime....#ageaintnuttinbuta#

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  9. I love that you two are taking the time to continuously find the time to grow and expand your intimacy! Wish more couples would. Keep f*ing and having fun with each other!

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    1. Thanks for the compliment, and trust me we will....#itwontstop....#ooohooh

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  10. i'm just dating someone... and definitely not often enough. I enjoy the camaraderie that develops from touching your lover.

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    1. If it's not enough, then change it...#handsallova...#happytouches ;)

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  11. I would LOVE to have this kind of relationship if I get married! Sometimes I feel like I wouldn't have the energy...sex is work! LOL. But I think if you lust for each other and keep it spicy, then it doesn't feel like work. It feels like play, and who doesn't love to play!

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    1. I hope you are blessed with a great relationship. Trust me if you and your mate are sexually compatible you will want to do it all the time. Playing is the best mindset to have with your mate.

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  12. i'm lucky if i can get 3 times a month

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    1. Omg...The both of us would be really frustrated...We have to be together everyday

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  13. Don't you ever go out and night and then get super tired and pass out instead? LOL

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    1. Yes, we do go out every now and then. Back in our younger days we'd paint the town. Now, we're happy hanging out at the house. Although, I have to admit there have been times we've gotten dressed to go out, and have gotten turned on. Needless to say, we didn't make it out of the house...lol

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  14. For the past month it's been every day but it's usually anywhere from 2-3 times a week. I've been with my husband for 20 years and he's sexier to me now than when we first met.

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    1. Thanks for sharing, and I have to agree I'm more attracted to him now more than ever....#itjustgetsbettandbetta

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  15. Wow this amazing…I am a newlywed and find this very helpful. I need to step my game up!! haha..thanks for sharing

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    1. Lol newlywed...I'm glad to have helped you, and I hope you follow our blog. It may give you some insight on our to stay married. We've been together 22 years; 7 years dating, and we're about to celebrate our 15th year married...#staytuned

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  16. Eva I must say that you and your husband are a rare breed. I'm curious. Are most of the just random quickies or are they planned? I'm sure 360+ rounds on a year aren't all rose pedals and candle light.

    Just the thought of findind the time and energy makes me tired. Girl you just may become an American shero. Do you work standing up? :-)

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    1. Lol...All of our friends say the same thing; we're a rare breed. That's how we got the name "The Humps". And my best friend always tell me I need a "S" on my chest because I am a Superwoman. Check out my recent post it should answer your questions. Thanks for the inquiry, and I hope you follow our blog. :)

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  17. Can you write about how you manage to have sex everyday? like how does it go down when you guys might have an argument and aren't getting along?

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    1. Check out my recent post, but I'll give you more details on the next post for certain. Thanks for the inquiry, and I hope you follow our blog. :)

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  18. We fuck every night before we go pray and go to bed. I know what you mean by having a lot to accomplish. So do we, but we always make time for each other. And honestly, we are just plain and simple attracted to each other. We really do have the hots for each other.

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  19. I'm right there with you! In my most tired bad days - when I see him all is like heaven. I've never counted though...I'm going to start. Is there a twitter site you can be followed on? Keep up the blogging. Its good juicy work.

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    1. Hooray! So glad you're like me still have the hots for your hubby. I actually don't count anymore. It was easier when we dated and once we hit 1000 it got too difficult. Definitely It would've been too hard once we got married. We're so spontaneous until I won't be able to keep an accurate count...lol...I don't have a twitter account yet but it's coming soon. Thanks for sharing and taking the time to read our blog. We appreciate it :)

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  20. Im following...I applaud you all! I must ask how do you keep it hot and heavy after a baby? Well mine is 2 and after chasing after her all day I am tired...I have the hots for my husband but its like I cant even keep my eyes open!!!

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    1. Girl, I totally understand about having babies. I suggest taking vitamims. If you still have some prenatal vitamins take them. Also, exercise helps with energy levels, too. I hope this helps. Thanks for reading our blog, and the compliment :)

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  21. This is amazing. I'm with JustBelnc... I don't understand how married women have a man in bed with them every night and not get it in. So, you orgasm every time. That is awesome. Are you all just having quickies? How many children do you have? How old are they? Are they still in the house? How did/do you manage this much sex with a family?

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    1. Yes, I do have am orgasm every time. We do have quickies when we're sneaking it in around the kids, but at night time is when we come alive. We have two boys; 21 and 14. Our oldest is away at college. We manage to get it in any way and ever way we can...#wecantkeepaway

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  22. This concept is very curious to me. I LOVE that you 2 are so sexually compatible. I have a feeling that it's hard to get too mad at someone when you know you're going to be doing it every night.

    I, personally would not be down for this and frankly neither would my dh (i've asked). More than anything I think that people should be well matched. Seems like you are. Kudos!

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    1. Thanks for the compliment. You're right we very seldom disagree, and a huge fight is a rarity. We're very well matched.:)

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  23. I find this very admirable. After Ms. Demetria Lucas posted the story about you and your husband, I just had to click the link to view your blog. I was eager to learn more as this is the first time I've ever heard of this lol I'm sure many say the same thing. Much respect to you for 1) making it happen every night 2) being comfortable enough to share with others. I'm very anxious to read your next post and find out how this magic happens daily. Oh... also very respectable for the number of comments you actually responded to :)

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    1. Thank you much for the compliment; I really do appreciate it. I'm elated that you'll be following our blog. We want married couples to stay married. Which is why I try to reply to every comment. Sometimes it takes me a minute...life gets in the way... We really didn't realize that we were that rare, and our cousin, Demetria, encouraged us to start the blog. Especially after we realized all the our coupled friends are now divorced, and we're the only couple still together. You're going to love the next post...#staytuned

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