Sunday, March 2, 2014

Sucking Cock is a Beautiful Thing

You may be thinking how in the hell could sucking cock be a beautiful thing?  Especially, you ladies out there. You may be thinking that's all for him. Well, it's not, and it's beautiful for several reasons. Let's begin with the fact that it's apart of sex (or fuckin' as me and Daddy call it), and that's beautiful. Also, it's great foreplay to get you and your mate's motor revving. Yes, you ladies too.

I reflect back to the third time Daddy and I fucked. He was lying on top of me; we were kissing and screwing. And I was hotter than a lil gal on prom night. Before I knew it he spread open my legs, and ate me like I was an item on a buffet menu. I was nervous because I didn't know how to return the favor. I apprehensively said I had never gave head before; he slowly came up, and said, "Don't worry about it. You will one day. And when you like it, I'll love it. All you have to do is relax, and enjoy." He went back down to finish giving me orgasms like I'd never felt. Needless, to say we fucked for hours into the early morning. 

Although, I was thoroughly enjoy our fuckapade, I couldn't help but think about what he said. I was thinking damn, he's confident. How can he just know I'm going to suck dick. I've never sucked dick. Where did he come from with his philosophy? Part of my thought process came from how I was raised. No offense to anyone, but I have to keep it real.  As a lil black gal I was taught that sucking dick is grotesque, and only whores do such a thing. I've found that to be true for other black girls as well. Our  upbringing has had alot to do with our apprehension about sex related issues across the board. 

Moving forward, a few fucks later I tried. But, I didn't get it right. I was too anxious and worried about pleasing him. He wasn't at all upset nor disappointed. He pulled me to him, and said, "You'll get it right when you do what I told you to do." That turned out to be the best advice he could've given me about how to suck cock; relax and enjoy it. 

One night we had gone on a ride around town, just riding, talking, and listening to music. Anita Baker's Rapture as I recall was the choice of music that night. We pulled up in the driveway, and I don't know what came over me. I leaned over him, undid his pants, pulled his cock from his undies, and starting sucking him. Before I knew it I had gotten so damn excited that I seriously wet my panties.  Ironically enough as I came in my panties, I was consuming all of his sweet juices down my throat. Once I finished swallowing every drop, I licked my lips to be certain I didn't leave any leftovers. He said to me, "Wow! Now, that's what I meant. When you like it, I'll love it!" I knew then he was pleased.

As turns out I learned that sucking cock isn't just for him, it's a turn on for me, too. As well it should be a turn for all women because when you're pleasing you man you should be turned on that you're doing something that's pleasing him, and in turn will make him want you even more. When you learn to relax and enjoy what you're doing it's not a chore, or something he just wants you to do. But, you want to do it to for him, and it turns you on just to do it for him. 

All too often I've heard females say I ain't sucking no dick, or I just don't feel like it. But, yet you want your pussy ate when it's time to fuck. That's not only not fair to him, but what you won't do there's about five other women wanting and waiting to do it for him at the drop of a hat. And honestly, why wouldn't you want to suck his cock? It should turn you on just as much as it turns him on. It's foreplay for you, too.  The actual deed gets you wet, and ready to fuck, too. If it's not then you're viewing sucking cock as a chore or task for him, and you're not enjoying it for yourself. And if that's the case then you must ask yourself this simple question, "Am I really pleasing him?" 

Anytime we don't want to do something generally as humans aren't giving our best efforts.  So, think about how having his cock in your mouth makes you feel.  Evaluate are you just doing this for him because this is what he wants it. Ask yourself is this something you enjoy doing, and you both want it? When we, ladies, want it just as much as he does, he'll love it even more. Then, you'll love how he reciprocates the favor in more ways than one. Trust me when your mindset changes about sucking cock, your relationship with your mate will begin to blossom in ways you've never imagined. In turn, your mate has to be willing to allow you to time to get better, and have patience for you to get better. Better means improving your techniques, and change your mindset about pleasing him in that way. 

You may be thinking how in the hell could sucking cock be a beautiful thing?  Especially, you ladies out there. You may be thinking that's all for him. Well, it's not, and it's beautiful for several reasons. Let's begin with the fact that it's apart of sex (or fuckin' as me and Daddy call it), and that's beautiful. Also, it's great foreplay to get you and your mate's motor revving. Yes, you ladies too.

I reflect back to the third time Daddy and I fucked. He was lying on top of me; we were kissing and screwing. And I was hotter than a lil gal on prom night. Before I knew it he spread open my legs, and ate me like I was an item on a buffet menu. I was nervous because I didn't know how to return the favor. I apprehensively said I had never gave head before; he slowly came up, and said, "Don't worry about it. You will one day. And when you like it, I'll love it. All you have to do is relax, and enjoy." He went back down to finish giving me orgasms like I'd never felt. Needless, to say we fucked for hours into the early morning. 

Although, I was thoroughly enjoy our fuckapade, I couldn't help but think about what he said. I was thinking damn, he's confident. How can he just know I'm going to suck dick. I've never sucked dick. Where did he come from with his philosophy? Part of my thought process came from how I was raised. No offense to anyone, but I have to keep it real.  As a lil black gal I was taught that sucking dick is grotesque, and only whores do such a thing. I've found that to be true for other black girls as well. Our  upbringing has had alot to do with our apprehension about sex related issues across the board. 

Moving forward, a few fucks later I tried. But, I didn't get it right. I was too anxious and worried about pleasing him. He wasn't at all upset nor disappointed. He pulled me to him, and said, "You'll get it right when you do what I told you to do." That turned out to be the best advice he could've given me about how to suck cock; relax and enjoy it. 

One night we had gone on a ride around town, just riding, talking, and listening to music. Anita Baker's Rapture has I recall was the choice of music that night. We pulled up in the driveway, and I don't know what came over me. I leaned over him, undid his pants, and starting sucking him. Before I knew it I had gotten so damn excited that I seriously wet my panties.  Ironically enough as I came in my panties, I was consuming all of his sweet juices down my throat. Once I finished swallowing every drop, I licked my lips to be certain I didn't leave any leftovers. He said to me, "Now, that's what I meant. When you like it, I'll love it!" I knew then he was pleased.

As turns out I learned that sucking cock isn't just for him, it's a turn on for me too. As well it should be a turn for all women because when you're pleasing you man you should be turned on that you're doing something that's pleasing him, and in turn will make him want you even more. When you learn to relax and enjoy what you're doing it's not a chore or something he just wants you to do. But, you want to do it to for him, and it turns you on just to do it for him. 

All too often I've heard females say I ain't sucking no dick, or I just don't feel like it. But, yet you want your pussy ate when it's time to fuck. That's not only not fair to him, but what you won't do there's about five other women wanting to do it for him at the drop of a hat. And honestly, why wouldn't you want to suck his cock? It should turn you on just as much as it turns him on. It's foreplay for you too, and it gets you wet and ready to fuck, too. If it's not then you're viewing sucking cock as a chore or task for him, and you're not enjoying it for yourself. And if that's the case then you must ask yourself this simple question, "Am I really pleasing him?" 

Anytime we don't want to do something generally we as humans aren't giving our best efforts.  So, think about how having his cock in your mouth makes you feel.  Evaluate are you just doing this for him because this is what he wants it. Ask yourself is this something you enjoy doing, and you both want it? When we, ladies, want it just as much as he does he'll love it even more, and you'll love how he reciprocates the favor in more ways than one. Trust me when your mindset changes about sucking cock, your relationship with your mate will begin to blossom in ways you've never imagined. In turn, your mate has to be willing to allow you to time to get better, and have patience for you to get better. Better means improving your techniques, and change your mindset about pleasing him in that way. 

Trust me sucking cock is a beautiful thing...#stayedtuned...#motips2cum...#how2blowhismind

Blessings, 




16 comments:

  1. Hi I recently started following your blog when @abelleinbk's mentioned you and your husband's sexcapades. She was right! We do want to read ALL about it! It's empowering and refreshing to see a black woman own her sexuality. As long as you post, I'll keep reading. Excellent work, please keep it up!

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    1. Thank you kindly for your compliment; I'm most appreciative that you find our blog interesting. I promise to keep it interesting, and I'll certainly keep posting. Don't hesitate to ask any questions and make comments. I just opened a twitter account, and you can follow me there, too...@evatheforbidden...Thanks again...#blessings

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  2. Thank you Eva! Sucking cock is a beautiful thing and I enjoy it. Turning him on, turns me on more than anything. I'm usually wetter than ever after that.
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    1. You're most certainly welcome; it's my pleasure. I'm so elated that you're enjoying our blog, and even more elated to find another woman that enjoys sucking cock as much as I do. Thanks for following our blog, and you can also follow me on twitter. I just opened an account...@evatheforbidden...#blessings

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  3. Hi Eva,

    I am really curious as to how one becomes a "deep throat girl." I can never take it in that deep without gagging or just not doing it right.

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    1. First allow me to say thank you for reading our blog, and asking questions. That's really what we want, to help people. I'm really glad you asked how to become a deep throat girl. It's all in your technique, and practice makes perfect. That's going to be apart of the next post. It's way toooo much information to cover in a reply box. But, just know it's coming soon...#staytuned

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  4. You know what's funny Eva - I want to like this blog more than I actually like it. The information that you offer is entertaining and informative. At the same time when I open a post called "Sucking Cock..." i'm immediately limited as to where I can read it. I can't have that title up in the same room with my kids, on the bus or at work (the main places where I read blogs). A little double entendre in the title would have showed that you are clever as well as informative.

    The information that you offer is golden and apparently much needed. I feel like every person should be a porn star for their partner. At the same time when I read sentences like "daddy and I fucked..." there's an undeniable YUCK factor. Now i'm thinking about my parents and who the hell needs that! LOL!

    I understand that my opinion is uninvited and may well be unwelcomed. Just know that I wish nothing but the best for you and this blog. Good luck with this mamacita! I hope you get lots of follows. I'm unlikely to be one.

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    1. To Anonymous,

      First allow me to say thank you for your comment. Despite what you may think about my blog. I welcome all comments and opinions regardless of a person's stance on my blog. With that being said, opinions are like ass wholes...everybody's got one.

      Your comment that you want to like my blog more than you actually like it says to me that you're a "fence straddler". Meaning you want to come out of your box, but don't know if you should.

      The title of this particular post, "Sucking Cock is a Beautiful Thing" is just a title. You can read the blog anywhere you want to read it. Regardless of whose around, or where you are...it's call scroll up or down and the title won't be seen. If that's your concern. You state that you can't read this because of the title around you kids and such...again scroll up or down...In addition to that, just like you can't read this around your kids. Why would you? It's not meant for children to view. Just like I don't write my blog around my children. It's meant for adults only.

      And your two cents about a double entendre is just what I didn't want, Sweetie. The title wasn't meant to be clever it was meant to be an attention gabber, and I think I've accomplished that because obviously you read it. Despite what the title you READ IT!

      As far as your comment about "Daddy and I fucked"...Well, Sweetie, if that makes you think about your parents then, that's you in your box again. If you've never heard of a female referring to her significant other as "Daddy" then you need to live a little. Many females refer to their mates as such. A "Daddy" doesn't always mean the man that fathered you. Allow me to give you the definition, context, and history of the term:

      a girls boyfriend or husband..who takes care of her, looks ou ofr her, (like a daddy) it is an affectionate term that should only be used on a man who deserves the ego boost. The context of referring to a male lover has been around since 1681. Know your history before you make naive comments.

      And Yes, my Daddy deserves the ego boost for more reasons than just fuckin' my brains out. This is how I refer to him, and what I call him in and out of the sack. Maybe you've never had a man to take care of you and care for you in such a way that he deserves to be called your daddy. And maybe you've never been smashed on well enough in the heat of the moment for you to have uttered the term Daddy. So, that's again you in your little box. Live a little, or stay in your box. That's your YUCK factor as you call it.

      Many women have coined the term Daddy for their mates. Just listen to Beyonce`s new CD, Track 6...Partition...She refers to Jay has her Daddy, and we all know Bey has a biological father...It's a term of endearment, Sweetie.

      In closing, my blog isn't for everyone, especially for those who don't know if they can handle me being upfront and candid. I say what most, mainly females, can't, won't, and don't know how to say. I don't need to sprinkle grains of sugar on honey that's thick, rich and flows.

      You may want to keep reading my blog; you just might learn something.

      Blessing,
      Eva

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  5. Hi Eva, thanks so much for this blog. My fiance turned me on to this blog cause he was excited about the possibility of having sex 365 days/yr (as he should be) and wanted to see how someone elses journey could help us. Okay to the question- My man wants me to give him head but he won't reciprocate. He says that he's never gone down on a woman and doesn't plan on doing it cause it feels awkward. I can't help but feel a little annoyed with him, although i know its a process, becaise i don't mind pleasing him. I know he loves me and will make a great husband but how do i deal with not getting my needs met and what does this say about our relationship? Thoughts please!!!!!!

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  6. well coming from a mans point of view I think your man is tripping and he better change his way of thinking and start eating some kitty! The problem will occur when you get the itch to have your kitty eaten.. now if you are ok with this type of relationship then its ok for him not to eat you but if not it just may open the door for someone else to give you oral pleasure. i think you are gonna have to make him do it don't wanna be too nasty but one night make him play with your kitty and talk dirty to him and trust me he will go down and have you for breakfast, lunch and dinner! Now be patient with him at first but once he gets a taste of your kitty esp. if its shaved he will never stop.....well that's just my 2 cents from a man point of view....DONT HURT NOBODY!

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  7. Hello Mr. & Mrs. Humps, I am enjoying your blog. It's nice to hear/read about a couple that are still enjoying each other agree. Eva, I with you 100%. I feel good when I make my hubby feel good. There's something very empowering about being able to bring that much pleasure to another person.

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    1. We're both ecstatic that you're enjoying our blog. You're right there is something empowering and liberating to bring pleasure to your mate on that level. We promise to keep our blog interesting, entertaining, and informative. Thanks for following our blog; we 'ppreciate ya...#blessingsthehumps

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  8. I love the post ...can't wait to receive my DDS. (Dick sucking degree)

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  9. Lmao...I guess you're right I do have a DDS...I'm really glad you love the post; I hope our blog helps you get your DDS, too...lol...too funny!

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  10. Very interesting. I will be back!

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  11. I haven't read your blog since the first couple posts. But I'm sitting here on a relaxing Sunday afternoon, playing social-media catch-up. Sucking Cock... Yes it can be beautiful thing with the right man. ***clutches pearls*** Thanks for being so open and honest Eva!

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