The Beautiful Thing Continues

You’ve asked for it, and here it is. I have to say this was not an easy feat to write about how to suck cock. I had to truly contemplate what I do and how I do it, and even more so reflect back to my beginning of when I first started. Here goes...

If you’ve never given a blow job before you and your mate should discuss parameters; this will avoid any uncomfortable or awkward moments when you do begin doing the deed. Somethings to note is: swallowing, body positions, and safe words or moves if you get fatigued you’ll both know to move on the next sumthin’ sumthin’. 

Set the scene; the atmosphere and ambience is up to you. Especially, if your man is anything like my Daddy. He’s not a romantic, so if there’s a certain mood I want I do it myself. Think of what you like; is it scented candles or incense, music, rose petals on the bed, and/or porn on the tube? Whatever turns you on, then do it.

You’ll need a few items; bottled water, towel or tissue, halls menthol drops, and cocoa butter. I prefer Palmer’s cocoa butter in the jar. Now, I know you’re wondering what to do with all this stuff? Glad you asked. Water helps you to stay hydrated, and keep your throat wet. If you don’t drink water, start. Not only does water keep your throat moistened, but water helps all your organs work properly including your kitty katt. Drinking water throughout the day will ensure you stay wet throughout the duration of sex. Other lubes are okay, but I really don’t like in the bottle lubricants. I drink at least a gallon of water daily, and I rarely have a problem with staying wet. Be it my mouth or kitty because my body is completely hydrated. If you do become dry during sex then natural saliva is the best lube. Just ask Jenna Jameson. At any rate, it’s okay if you need to take a sip while you’re sucking if your mouth gets dry. 

You may or may not need the towel or tissue; you’ll use that if you don’t like to swallow. I’d be remiss not to inform you of the benefits of swallowing semen, as I am an avid swallower. Love my vitamins...lol... It contains proteins vitamin B12, vitamin C, zinc, calcium, citric acid, creatine (which helps build muscles), and other vitamins and minerals. It’s specifically helps pregnant women fargo preeclampsia, high blood pressure. So, mommies to be it's okay to take a gulp. Just a bit of FYI. 

The halls menthol drops help keep your throat muscles relaxed as well as keep your mouth wet. If you’re a newbie at sucking cock, then suck on a couple before you begin doing the deed. In the deep throating post, coming after this one, I’ll discuss more advance techniques such as how to suck his cock and deep throat with a halls drop in your mouth. Blowing on his cock with a halls drop will drive him into orbit. I literally mean blowing on his cock; the coolness of the drop creates a relaxing sensation for him. I’ll also discuss how to drink water and suck cock simultaneously, how to throat him and add his sack to the action. Also,  I’ll include training your gag reflex, and how to swallow his load while his package is at the back of your throat.

Drinking warm lemon water helps relax throat muscles; it has weight loss benefits, too. Palmer’s cocoa butter is a great lubricant to keep the party going if and if your mouth isn’t wet enough and/or you get tired. It really helps when you’re jacking him off. The plus about Palmer’s cocoa butter is that it has no taste. You can interchangeably go from sucking to jacking, and the taste won’t bother your taste buds. And, you thought cocoa butter was just for keeping your skin moisturized. 

Now, that’s out of the way. Let’s begin with the basic blow job techniques. Obviously, you need to begin with his cock out and ready. Of course, you know to be mindful of your teeth.  That doesn’t necessarily mean he needs to have a hard on. Although gentlemen that will help newbies, so be considerate if your girl is new at this. Give her something to work with, and help her out. If you’re not a novice, and your dude isn’t hard then it’s your job to get him that way. 

For beginners the easiest body position is with you in between his legs on your tummy, and him propped up with pillows in bed. He’ll love the scenery of looking down on you with his cock in your mouth.  As you get better various body positions will get easier to accommodate his cock in your mouth. For now, keep it simple for you both to enjoy the moment.

If his cock isn’t hard then begin with gentle kisses and caresses. It’s okay to squeeze, but be gentle. Massage his sack with one hand, and use your other hand to keep his limp cock stable. Trust me while your kissing, licking, jacking him with one hand, and massaging his sack with the other he won’t be limp long. By using both hands simultaneously, you’re increasing stimulation and increasing the blood flow to his member. Using both hands may take some getting use to doing, but it comes with practice. Unless you happen to be ambidextrous as I am. 

Once he’s at attention, incorporate licking his member from all angles. What I call the “ice cream lick”. This move will salivate your mouth keeping your mouth wet. Remember, the wetter the better. You don’t want his member to get chafe. Move into what I call the screwdriver. Your hand is at the base of his cock, and you literally are turning your hand in a screw driving motion back and forth while your mouth is covering his head moving in an up and down motion. While his cock is in your mouth train yourself to breathe through your nose. This will help you as you train yourself to deep throat him. 

Use your lips to hum down the shaft of his cock, and really hum. Let him know you’re enjoying it too. The sounds of cock sucking is a real turn on for him. Of course, it must be real for you, so don’t fake it. When you have his cock in your mouth drop your jaws as low as you’re able to do so. This will force your tongue out of your mouth keeping your mouth wet, and flattening your tongue. Then, you’re able to take him in deeper. Hint, hint...getting yourself deep throat ready. This is the same as when you go to the doctor, and he uses a tongue depressor to check the back of your throat. 

Keep it interesting, and keep him guessing what you’ll do next. Meaning switch from just sucking him to hand motions like finger roll, palming it, double screwdriver, v-rub, and ring finger. This is also when the cocoa butter may help you keep the party going. Finger roll is just that use the tips of your fingers to roll up and down his shaft as if your playing the keys on a piano. Palming it is just that; use the palms of your hands to glide up, down, and around his shaft. Double screwdriver is using both hands to turn back and forth. You have to get in a rhythm because each hand will off set the other. Meaning if the left hand is moving back then the right hand should be moving forward. This move intensifies his pleasure, and gives your mouth, throat, and tongue time to recuperate. Depending on how long you plan to suck cock. The v-rub is placing his cock between your index finger and middle finger rubbing his shaft up and down. Remember, the wetter the better. Ring finger is using your index finger and thumb to mimic a ring, and rub his shaft up and down. This mimics the use of a cock ring. It’s a toy if you’re into using toys in the bedroom. I personally like to put in my own work. But, there’s nothing wrong with using toys if you and your mate agree on using those types of toys during sex. When you get comfortable you can do all these hand moves while sucking him. It just takes practice to do all these things simultaneously. The more you practice the better you’ll get, and trust me he won’t mind you practicing. 

The more of your body you put into the actual sucking him will intensify his pleasure. Use your head and neck in various movements. This also helps you not to tire rapidly by just using your mouth to suck him. Also, when his head is in your mouth use your tongue to circle around it. This is a great precursor to what I call “lapping”; just like a puppy laps up his water from his water bowl. Another technique that preps you for deep throating is keeping your tongue laid against his cock as you take him deeper down your throat. Keeping your lips tight, and once you’ve taken it down as low as you’re able come back up in a rapid but steady motion. Use one hand to help you keep his cock remain stable. Then, pop the cock right out of your mouth. This is my lollipop suck. He’ll love it because it imitates a tight katt. And, we all know men love tight pussy. When you get really good you can do it with no hands. The sound of your mouth popping will drive him crazy. I have to interject a little story on this one. 

One night I was “working”, and Dad’s phone was in the bed. In all of our fun we didn’t realize his phone pocket dialed someone. That person didn’t answer the call so what happened...it went to voice mail. And yes, it recorded the sounds of my lollipop suck. We didn’t even know it until the next day. I had used his phone to call a friend because my phone battery had died, and I needed to make a call. Luckily, it was a good friend that figured out it was me giving him head. She asked me to teach her how to do that, and said, “Damn, you’re good. How the hell do you make that sound and keep in rhythm? People would pay money for you to teach that.” That night I have to say I was on fire. True Story. 

Moving on, know that as you’re sucking him your mouth will salivate. It’s a natural thing; don’t swallow it. Release it all back on to the head of his cock and use your hands to keep his member wet. Then, you can use all those hand moves to keep it going. Repeating these moves makes the blow job last longer and longer. Keeping you both excited, and anticipating the fuck to cum, pun intended. The build up will drive you both bananas for the big “O”. 

My personal best is six hours. It was a summer night, and we were invited to hang out with friends at a local club. We had been playing all day, and we were already hot for each other. We wanted to stay home, and finish what we had started earlier that day. But, we decided to go ahead, and hang out. We get there, and of course everyone’s drinking. I’m not a drinker at all, but everyone was ragging on me for not drinking, so I had one drink. I really do mean one. I don’t know if that did it or not, but I was really, really ready to go home. We didn’t make it passed the living room. We keep music playing in our house and this particular night Toni Braxton’s, “Love Should’ve Brought You Home” was on. I made a joke and said, “It’s midnight; do you know where your lover is?” At that point,  I undid Daddy’s pants, dropped to my knees, and started sucking his cock. He eventually sat down in his recliner to enjoy more of his pleasure; I stayed on my knees. Btw, a pillow under your knees helps with comfort, too. Once we saw the sun coming up, we realized it was six o’clock in the damn morning. Daddy abruptly grabbed me up, and bent me over the arm of his chair. He fucked the life out of my lil katt. Another true story. 

These are a few things that I’ve found that have helped me to give my Daddy mind blowing, toe curling, eyes rolling in the back of his head blow jobs. I hope you find something helpful for you try, and most all become successful in your effort to suck cock. I’m telling you it’s a beautiful thing to know you can truly please your man, and keep it cumming. 

Blessings, 

Eva
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