Wednesday, March 12, 2014

The Beautiful Thing on Blast


The much anticipated particulars on the “The Beautiful Thing” is finally here. You’ve asked for it, and here it is...Deep throating cock. Let’s begin with understanding that learning to deep throat cock takes pace, practice, and patience; unless you have the gift or was given the gift. Yes, I do believe some people have the gift; just as there’s gifted artists, dancers and musicians. However, anyone can learn to draw, paint, dance or play an instrument; thus, anyone can learn to deep throat cock. 


First thing is first, you have to train your gag reflex. Yes, train your gag reflex. There are several ways you can accomplish this. One: Use a toothbrush or your finger. Open your mouth dropping your jaws, stick out your tongue and search for your gag spot. You’ll know if you have one, and when you find it because you’ll begin to gag. Now, you’re asking if you have one? Yes, that’s right because research shows ten to thirty percent of the world’s population doesn’t have one, the gift. Once you’ve found that certain area then use your toothbrush or finger to gently massage that area. You have to get accustomed to being touched there to control the reflex to gag. This is the area you want to brush for at least ten-seconds daily to get rid of the sensation to gag. The more you do it the less you gag, getting you use to something being there. 

Two: Some people have used desensitizing throat spray to numb that area at least until they’ve trained themselves not to gag. A prescribed medicine is lidocaine, over the counter is Axon. The spray should last about an hour. I’ve never had to try throat spray, so I’m not sure if the taste will bother your taste buds if you’re going to swallow his load. Certainly, if it works for you, then do it. 

Three: Build a strong core. Yep, strong abs may help you control your gag reflex while your deep throating. A strong core is the center of your being; your core is the center for everything, and helps you to use all other body parts to the maximum efficiency. Hence, the word itself means the central or most important part of something; thus your core is the central, most part of your body. I have to mention that importance of having a strong not only to deep throat cock, but out of shape abdominal muscles, or big bellies is one of the central causes of diseases such as hypertension, diabetes, and may lead to heart attacks, especially, in females. So you have plenty of reasons to work on getting a six-pack. Get started!

Four: It’s a psychological thing. Your mind is a powerful tool, and it’s literally a mind over matter issue. If you truly have a desire to deep throat your man’s package you have to train your brain that you can, and you will. It’s like the ‘Little Engine that Could’; “I think I can, I think I can”. You know the storybook.

Now, I have to be honest I know these methods will help, and with enough effort and practice they’ll work. Although, I learned through the old school method. My Daddy kept his cock down my throat enough times until I got it right. Yes, I did gag a few times, but I believe I was “given” the gift, no tonsils. Therefore, there was nothing to obstruct his cock from reaching the back of my throat which I believe made it easier for me to learn how to throat him, and why I really didn’t gag a lot. If you don’t have tonsils, then you only have to get use to his cock being back there, and learn to breathe through your nose. 

Also for me, it was more of a psychological thing. I wanted to please him in this way, and I really wanted to get it right.  He also helped me by getting into my psyche. Many people don’t realize that psychological mind play is a huge part of sex in all aspects. Gentlemen, I know you’ve heard this before, but it’s true when you have a woman’s mind you’ve got her. Females are emotional beings, and guys it’s up to you to appeal to her emotions. You have to help her along the way. You’ve gotta to know the right things to say to her to help her relax, breathe, and take him (your cock) to the back of her throat. Not only that but, dirty talk during sex is a tremendous builder for the big “O”.   

Now that the techniques to train your gag reflex have been covered. Let’s talk positions and how to do the deed. For beginners I’ve found the two easiest positions to learn is lying in between his legs on your elbows while he’s propped up by pillows, and the other for me was kneeling in front of him. Lying between his legs gives you the room for your head to come down, then your mouth can come down and over his cock. This helps his cock can slide easily down your throat. Also, this position gives you ability to control how far down you can take him. When you’ve gotten really good, you’ll be able to take it to the base, or the floor. Like the song says, “Real girls get down on the floor”...lol. If you’re on your knees then you have the range to drop your jaws even more so, but he’ll be in control of the depth. So, practice what’s comfortable for you to take him down your throat. 

You have to keep your body as the giver in the position that’s most comfortable for you because you’re mostly doing the work. He’s the receiver, and he’s going to enjoy you from whatever position or angle. That is until we get into being a submissive cock sucker, and that’s altogether different techniques to learn to be submissive. That post will be coming soon, so stay tuned. 

Remember, just like giving a really good blow job requires wetness that’s even more so when deep throating. So, a little gagging here and there won’t hurt. It’s just going to release saliva in your mouth, and you in turn release it back onto his cock. If or when you get to the point that you think you may gag too much, drop your jaws further down, forcing your tongue out further. Hold his cock there for a few seconds lay your tongue firmly against his cock, come up with your tongue close to his cock. This move is also aiding you to train your gag reflex. When you get really good, then taking him to the floor will better your lollipop suck. That will blow him into a new galaxy. Next, use your hand motions to keep him totally moistened with the built up saliva. Just be careful for nothing else to come up when and/or if you gag. If you feel like it is obviously stop sip on some water, and regroup. 

Essentially, the same techniques discussed in “The Beautiful Thing Continues” still apply as you want to incorporate those methods and preparation techniques into your episode to make it a more riveting and captivating session. Keep him wet, drop your jaws, and keep him guessing what’s coming next. Now, that you have deep throating in your repertoire you can change from sucking, jacking and throating as you please, or as you both decide. 

Meaning learn to listen to his reactions and his body movements when you’re pleasing him. He’ll tell you what he really likes without having to verbalize it to you, (unless ya’ll want it like that-dirty talk) but you have to be receptive to what he says, and how he’s saying it. 

Once you’ve mastered throating him then you’ll be ready for some advance techniques; throating him with a halls drop, drinking water while throating him, throat and rub, throat massaging his cock, and throating him while he ejaculates are a few. 

Throating his cock with a halls drop in your mouth increases the sensation of your technique. As the hall drop dissolves in your mouth the coolness of the drop stimulates his cock. For your first go around at trying this keep the halls underneath your tongue until you’re able to handle blowing his cock and deep throating him with the halls drop in your mouth. 

Drinking water while sucking and deep throating isn’t has difficult as you may think; however, it does takes practice to master the technique, and keep it going during your session. Of course begin with a good swallow of water in your mouth, not too much. At least not until you’ve mastered doing it. The water in your mouth gives him an unusual sensation that I’m sure he’s never felt. When you’re ready to swallow the water don’t try to swallow it all at once. The trick to swallowing the water is to ingest it in small increments when you come up from deep throating him. Don’t come completely up where his cock isn’t in your mouth. Try to keep it going, and find your rhythm.  Keep some water in your mouth, then go back down. The water also acts a lubricant to keep his cock moistened, and will help keep your mouth wet. Remember, the wetter the better. 

Next technique is what I call the throat and rub. This is when you’re deep throating him, and rubbing his sack simultaneously. The double action will be more than euphoric for him. When you’ve gotten really good at deep throating him, then you can add in a throat massage. Yep, a throat massage. When you have him down your throat contract your throat muscles, and yes he’ll really noticed the change in your pace and technique. Again, find your rhythm and pace. 

Lastly, at least for now, the ultimate release. Yea, it’s the top dog...lol...swallowing his load while you’re throating him. This technique will drive him absolutely insane. So, be ready for your man to come looking for you in the daylight with a flashlight, especially if you’re not home at your usual arrival time...lol..Not only does it send him into orbit, but it helps you mainly if you don’t like the taste of cum. You can still get your vitamins in..lol..Because his package is already down your throat all you have to do is swallow his delivery. It’s a win, win for you both.
Once you’ve mastered deep throating technique you can add more spice by licking his sack when his down your throat. When you’ve gotten really, really good try slipping one or both of his balls in your mouth while you’re throating him. Use one hand to bring his sack close to his shaft, drop your jaws as low as you’re able to then, extend your tongue as far out as possible to allow room for his balls to fit in your mouth. 

In closing, the basic keys to giving a great blow job and deep throating are simple. 1-Relax. Whatever you need to do to help you relax do it. Be it a nice long bubble bath with candlelight, a glass of wine. One glass is sufficient as too much alcohol will dry out your kitty katt. Many females make that mistake. 2-Breathe through your nose. 3-Find your comfortable position for your body. 4-Discover your rhythm and pace. 5-Most of all have fun, and try new things. 6-Make his cock your own boy toy, and I’m sure he’ll appreciate all your effort and he’ll be pleased.  

evatheforbiddenfruit@gmail.comAs always, we welcome comments, questions, and concerns. If you don’t want to post them, then feel free to send an email. 

Blessings, 

Eva



9 comments:

  1. I am so glad you started this blog. I have been married for 5 years but been with my husband 12 years. Only 2 of my friends have been married. One is divorced and the other is in the process. My point is these days people want to be married but dont want to put in the work. My friends get mad because I'd rather go home and fuck my husband than to go out with them. I do not want to listen to a bunch of women complain about their no good boyfriends (yet they continue to date the same type of guys and wont give a good guy the time of day), or they complain about wanting to be married but are so materialistic and lazy that the ones that have good guys scare the men off. So I'm done giving advice maybe you can address these issues sometime. Until then I agree with you, pleasing your man should not be considered only a priority but a privilege as well.

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    1. Sho' ya right, Mrs. Kitty Byrd, and I plan on addressing a lot of those issues. I'm so glad you commented. Girl, don't waste your time by not spending it with your hubby. In the end he's the one you have to live with, please, take care, and everything else. I rarely hang with anyone else, and I like it that way. I most definitely know its a privilege and a priority to have what we share. Thanks for reading our blog, and I hope your keep reading.
      Blessings,

      Eva

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  2. So do you shave, wax, or stay Jane queen of the jungle for him. What does a man like most when he's giving it to you oral?

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  3. Brazilian wax or shave...he's likes naked kitty katt all the time

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  4. He does sometimes, but it really doesn't bother me.

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  5. Great post!! I can't wait to try some of your techniques!!

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  6. I really need tips on getting my husband in the mood. He doesn't like head. It's weird. I love it. Help me. :(

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  7. Thank you much for reading our blog; we do appreciate you doing so. I'd say if he doesn't like head then just do it enough for you to enjoy the moment. As far as getting him in the mood, then do the things that you know he likes. If you need to set the scene for him try wearing lingerie in his favorite colors with heels to complete the outfit. Think of the things that you know has turned him on in the past that you've done. What attracted him to you in the beginning of your relationship? Then, build on those things. Give me more feedback on that, and then I can be more specific. You can also email me details if you prefer at evatheforbiddenfruit@gmail.com. Looking forward to hearing from you soon. Blessings, Eva

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